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Tuesday, April 9, 2013

How To Master Your Jealousy

How To Master Your Jealousy! 

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Every woman has experienced the feeling of jealousy and can Afrim that such moments are not exactly pleasant. Jealousy occurs when the partner change their behavior when we do not
offer the same condition, they feel they are losing control of the relationship and the love of others.
          Jealousy can occur in several forms: jealousy towards someone you know about that suppose to have a relationship with our partner jealousy of an unknown person (mistress) or jealousy from the male hobby (eg computer games ). However we can push for a behavior full of anger, resentment and frustration towards the partner.
          Jealousy can occur between two partners and can destroy the entire relationship, if not controlled. Learn to control and master your jealousy using the following tips:
          - Try to identify what has changed in your relationship. That before starting with reproaches, with control box phone or email. In a relationship requires two people, so I see what you did wrong and you (it may not be the only culprit);
          - Do not look for evidence where they are not. Now I'm not saying do not pay attention, but should not exaggerate with jealousy. If he loves you and wants only you, is a bit absurd to think that you are seeing another woman whenever he went to work;
          - Discuss calmly. Before you yell and scream so you hear all the neighbors try to wear a calm and civilized discussion with your partner. Even though at times they can not stay very calm, remember that discussion can always save the situation and prevent a fight ugly;
          - You have to trust in him. Maybe you suspect that you have someone else, and that you grind huge inside. Tell him what your heart and mind you. Talk about how you can remedy the situation. Ask him why he changed his behavior lately (maybe comes tired from work, can not believe that you still love him). To solve the problem have discovered causes;
          - Do not watch it. Or at least if you do, he should know that. If a man feels controlled and monitored will endeavor to hide better, and if it indeed has a mistress is possible that you do not know about it;
          - I know it's hard to abstain, but until you have evidence like emails, messages, photos or anything else that does not leave room for interpretation, do not say anything. Men do not ever admit to cheating, so you will not do better than to hide;
          - Ask for help. If any would do and whatever you say you're still not convinced that you're not cheating, then it might be time to consult a psychologist. This can help you see things more clearly and you do not do incredible scenarios.
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